Archive for the ‘Passion Play’ Category
Friday, April 29th, 2011
by: Yolanda Shoshana
If you like sexy and designer girl gadgets for the boudoir, you will love The Little Su Tulip by Joya 4U. It is luxury instrument of pleasure that is quite unique and looks like a work of art.
Little Su is named after the famous Chinese poet and courtesan, Su Xiaoxiao. She was known for just for her beauty, but also for her brains. Su Xiaoxiao pursued the values of love, beauty and humanity. All of those courtesan traits make her the perfect inspiration for an instrument of pleasure.
Shaped like a tulip and made with 100% medical grade silicone, you can use the petal for stimulation of the vagina and clit. It can also be used for anal action. There are two motors on this girl gadget for external and internal stimulation so it can give it to you good inside and out.
Little Su comes with three speeds and can be used in hands-free play. Another fun option is using Little Su as a strap on when put under a harness. The additional bonus for the Little Su user is that it has a dual function so that is can be used by two women at the same time. High five to the ladies who love the ladies, sounds like a jackpot.
Joya 4U is an Israeli based company created by two women. They get the fact that women like variety with their play things. Little Su is a girl gadget that can add loads of fun to your sex game.
Yolanda Shoshana “Shoshi” is a lifestyle provocateur: sex goddess, courtesan coach™, perfume creatrix, love maker, wedding officiant, and new thought speaker. She has a new lifestyle show on Mingle Media TV called, Courtesan Candy. Follow her on Twitter @Shoshi
Tags: adult toy, clit, courtesan, courtesan coach, girl gadget, Joya 4U, Little Su, modern courtesan, Su Xiaoxiao, vagina, vibrator, yolanda shoshana
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Tuesday, April 26th, 2011
by: Yolanda Shoshana
From the beginning of time apples have been thought of as scandalous. It is the forbidden fruit known for seducing Adam and Eve and taking them down. While some argue that apples are not aphrodisiacs, others see the apple as a symbol for love and sexuality.
The Greek men would toss apples at their intended love, if she caught the apple; it meant that they were engaged. This was done instead of giving a girl an engagement ring. I don’t know about you, but I would have wanted the apple and a ring.
Apples have also been the fruit used in love spells in many stories in different cultures. A folklore is if a woman sleeps with an apple and can get the person she loves to eat the apple, he/she would fall madly in with the woman. If your love life is in a dry period, this may be worth a try.
Apples are actually superfoods high in antioxidants, which are great for fighting cancer. They are also filled with vitamins, minerals, and enzymes that stimulate sexual desire. An apple a day not only keeps the doctor away, but helps to bring on the sexy heat between the sheets.
The great thing about apples is that you can use them during foreplay. Dip apples in chocolate or honey for succulent sexy fun.
Yolanda Shoshana “Shoshi” is a lifestyle provocateur: sex goddess, courtesan coach™, perfume creatrix, love maker, wedding officiant, and new thought speaker. She has a new lifestyle show on Mingle Media TV called, Courtesan Candy. Follow her on Twitter @Shoshi
Tags: aphrodisiacs, apples, Chocolate, courtesan cooks, eat sexy, food, food porn, foodie, Honey, sexy food, yolanda shoshana
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Monday, April 18th, 2011
by Stephanie G.
If your man suddenly self-diagnoses himself with Restless Leg Syndrome (RLS), blame the journal Sleep Medicine. They’ve recently published a letter from an RLS sufferer who claims that having sex and/or masturbating at night allows him to get a full nights’ sleep that would’ve otherwise been interrupted by RLS symptoms.
While doctors don’t know much about how to relieve the constant urge to move about, it seems several patients have conceded that reaching orgasm helps. Currently, 10% of the population has been affected by RLS.
Stephanie is a NYC lifer who enjoys new-age dating, sharp-dressed men, and occasionally acting as big spoon. Follow her on Twitter!
Tags: orgasms, restless leg syndrome, rls, sleep medicine, sleep problems
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Thursday, April 14th, 2011
by: Yolanda Shoshana
Have you lost your mojo in the bedroom and wondering what to do about it? You may be feeling like something is wrong with you, but know that you are not alone.
There are more prescription drugs coming on the market for women, which is a bit daunting. The pharmaceutical companies want women with sex issues to take things that can be harm to their body. Before you run to take prescriptions drugs for your problem, do research and have conversations with your doctor. You may only need to change your diet or it could be a deeper emotional issue that is causing the problem. .
There are also natural and herbal supplements that you can take that may be a good first step if you are having a sex problem. You should not experience side effects with these products and they are good for your health.
The following is a small list for you to try:
Women Extenze- an all natural blend of ingredients to enhance a woman’s pleasure and passion. It is perfect if you need a boost with your sexual intensity. According to the product makers, they want women do rediscover the sexual animal within. It is gynecologist formulated.
Sex Shots- This is a little energy cocktail that is 100% Vitamin B6 and B12. It comes in different flavors such as Sexy Strawberry, Lusty Lime, and Blue Hawaiian. B6 regulates the sex hormones. B12 is for the nerve endings which is important in stimulating the clitoris.
V-Gel Pleasure Pill- This little pill is not prescription drug, but an herbal supplement. You take it about 30 minutes before you are ready for your lovemaking session so you are ready to go. Some of the aphrodisiac ingredients include B6, zinc , and yohimbe bark.
Pandora - This enhancer is not only good for increasing your desire, but also for your physical pleasure. Due to being natural, it is even safe to take this with alcohol. This pill goes into affect in less than 30 minutes.
Yolanda Shoshana “Shoshi” is a lifestyle provocateur: sex goddess, courtesan coach™, perfume creatrix, love maker, wedding officiant, and new thought speaker. She has a new lifestyle show on Mingle Media TV called, Courtesan Candy. Follow her on Twitter @Shoshi
Tags: courtesan coach, enhancers, Extenze, libido, modern courtesan, Pandora, sex problem, Sex Shots, V-Gel, yolanda shoshana
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Wednesday, April 13th, 2011
by: Yolanda Shoshana
Most people are surprised when I tell them that the banana is an aphrodisiac. They know that the shape suggests something, but do not know that it packs a serious punch to the libido when eaten. Who would have thought that besides using a banana to learn how to give a good blowjob, there are other benefits?
Obviously, the phallic shape of the banana is great for giving someone who loves a nice penis a twinkle in their eye. The banana flower as a whole is quite erotic. It has phallus tapers and a bulb shaped base. The feel of the banana is also soft and fleshy adding to the sensual aspect of the fruit.
A little unknown fact is that women would use bananas as dildos before vibrators were so readily available. In Central America they drink the sap from the red banana, which is sweeter and softer than the yellow banana and known to be an elixir of love. The Hindus regard bananas as a sign of fertility. There is an Islamic myth that states that Adam and Eve did not cover themselves in fig leaves, but in banana leaves to cover their nudity.
Bananas are full of vitamins A. B. C, potassium, protein, iron, and fiber. It also contains the enzyme, bromelain which can be great for the production of testosterone.
Bananas would be great as your finger food for foreplay. You can accompany with another aphrodisiac by dipping in either honey or chocolate.
Yolanda Shoshana “Shoshi” is a lifestyle provocateur: sex goddess, courtesan coach™, perfume creatrix, love maker, wedding officiant, and new thought speaker. She has a new lifestyle show on Mingle Media TV called, Courtesan Candy. Follow her on Twitter @Shoshi
Tags: aphrodisiac, Banana, bromelain, eatsexy, food and sex, modern courtesan, phallic, red banana, yolanda shoshana
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Sunday, March 20th, 2011
by: Yolanda Shoshana
It is time to officially say goodbye to the cold weather. Spring is waving come hither, are you ready to get your seductive self ready for this fabulous time of year? Since the season is changing, make a few changes to new add pleasure to your life this time of year.
Get happy feet- It’s time to go get your pedicures so you can let your toes out. Select a color suited for a vamp so that they your pedi is sure to be noticed. Always make sure your toes are together before wearing your open toed shoes. It is not sexy to see a lovely lady who has not taken care of her feet.
Buy yourself flowers- Whether you are single or in a relationship buy yourself flowers from time to time just as a way to celebrate you. You can make this a new weekly ritual for spring. The smell and look of the flowers will add a nice touch to your day, while reminding you to stop and smell the roses.
Have a food porn picnic- The weather is going to be nice even to grab your picnic basket and spend some quality time outside. Get some delicious aphrodisiacs sit back and relax as you savor every bite. Why not whip up a food porn picnic for you and your boo so that your food can intersect with sex? If you are single, have a food porn picnic with friends. Not only will you have good sexy eats, but you may learn something new about your friends
Get a new sex book- Start reading sex/positive books to stay on top of your game in the boudoir. It keeps you creative and adventurous in the bedroom, as well as gives you inspiration. Make sure you read something that you find scandalous, could be just the thing you need to open up something sexually you have not tapped into.
Make sexy play dates- If you near a sex museum, go. If you have a kink film festival in your city, go. Go see burlesque dancers at the nearest lounge. Go look at all the nude art in the museum. A sexy play date will thrill your senses. Go with a friend or go alone, the most important thing is that you go play.
Yolanda Shoshana “Shoshi” is a lifestyle provocteur: sex goddess, courtesan coach™, perfume creatrix, love maker, wedding officiant, and new thought speaker. Follow her on Twitter @Shoshi
Tags: aphrodisiacs, food porn, foot fetish, lover, modern courtesan, nude art, pedicures, sex, sex museum, siren, vamp, yolanda shoshana
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Friday, March 18th, 2011
by: Yolanda Shoshana
Did you know that eggs are considered to be an aphrodisiac? Not only are they cunic shaped, but they are filled with ingredients that are great for your libido. The aphrodisiac appeal goes back to the days of the Greeks. They ate sparrow eggs because Aphrodite declared it the bird of love. While sparrow eggs are not that common to eat today, all types are eggs are included as aphrodisiacs whether it is caviar or a carton of Farmland eggs right out of the grocery store.
Eggs signify new life and fertility. Throughout the years eggs have been symbolic in various cultures such as the French would break an egg on their front door to guarantee a big family and the Egyptians believed that eggs were made from the sun and moon. Did you know that the karma sutra list sparrow eggs as good for potency?
Chicken eggs are believed to be great for sex if eaten raw right before you get into the action, though this is not considered be safe. These eggs are high in B5 and B6 which relieve stress and balance hormones. Both are key ingredients for a healthy sex life. Caviar eggs are the ultimate sign in fertility. They are rich in protein and zinc, plus they stimulate the formation of testosterone. Sounds like a good egg to have around.
Basically pick and egg, any egg, and you see where this aphrodisiac takes you.
Yolanda Shoshana “Shoshi” is a lifestyle provocateur who makes people think about their lifestyle and take action to live a luscious life. Follow her on Twitter @Shoshi
Tags: aphrodisiacs, Aphrodite, caviar, courtesan coach, courtesan cooks, cunic, eat sexy, eggs, fertility, hormones, sex, sparrow, yolanda shoshana
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Sunday, February 27th, 2011
by: Yolanda Shoshana
Ben Wa balls are small weighted balls used for sexual stimulation. The balls are also known as Geisha balls, Burmese bells, or Benoit balls. Whatever name you choose to give them, this girl gadget for the boudoir is gaining in popularity, especially with those who practice tantra.
There are conflicting opinions about the effectiveness of the balls. The goal is for the balls to float in your vagina so that it massages the vaginal walls to cause sexual arousal as well as improve vaginal muscle tone. Some say it feels about the same as using a tampon, while other people swear that using Ben Wa balls have assisted with them reaching an orgasm.
When you use Ben Wa balls you will not be tightening your vagina per ser, but you will be strengthening and toning your pelvic floor muscles. When your pelvic floor muscles are toned, you become more aware of those muscles therefore increasing your chance of having an orgasm.
Ben Wa balls originally were marble size metal balls. Fast forward to the present, now they come in various sizes and materials. Depending on how you want to roll, you can go with one ball or two balls. There are so many Ben Wa balls to choose, it is all about a matter of taste and what feels good to you. What works for one vagina, might not work for another. There are two top of the line balls you may want to consider by The Fun Factory and Lelo. The Fun Factory makes Smartballs designed for Kegel exercises that come with two balls that can be used for vaginal or anal fun. There is a string attached so that you can pull it to make the balls vibrate, now doesn’t that sound fun? As for the Lelo Beads, they rub up against each other to give you a thrilling sensation. They come with a retraction leash so that they are easily removed.
The best way to make the right selection for the little balls of pleasure is to do research. You might just find out you need more than a pair. In this case, think of it as the more the merrier.
Yolanda Shoshana “Shoshi” is a lifestyle provocateur who makes people think about their lifestyle and take action to live a luscious life. Follow her on Twitter @Shoshi
Tags: ben wa balls, benoit balls, fun factory, geisha balls, kegel, lelo, smartballs, yolanda shoshana
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Tuesday, February 22nd, 2011
by: Yolanda Shoshana
If you have been bored to tears in the boudoir, show your love while making love with the Liberator Heart Wedge Pillow. This heart shaped pillow for sex play just might be the thing that you need to add a spark to your tired routine.
The pillow is ergonomically designed so it fits your backside just right as you slide it under your pelvis. The incline is also wonderful for deeper penetration and G-spot access. It is light in weight so you can pick it up when the urge hits you to go from the bedroom to the living or go do it down and dirty in the kitchen.
The Heart Wedge Pillow is the bedroom prop that can help you switch up your positions with ease. If you tend to do the Ride’ Em Cowboy, use it to try Doggy Style or the position of your choice. A small book of sex positions comes with the pillow which is helpful if you want inspiration. When your partner is away or wants to watch, you can use this pillow by yourself with your favorite vibrator or dildo.
This cushy pillow comes with a red velvety cover, which is machine washable. It is made with furniture grade form, but make sure you use it with the cover on it so that you do not get the form dirty.
What is even better is the lovely pillow doubles as a fashion pillow, no one will have a clue what you do with it (unless they have one themselves).
Yolanda Shoshana “Shoshi” is a lifestyle personality: sex goddess, courtesan coach™, love maker, wedding officiant, and new thought speaker. Follow her on Twitter @Shoshi
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Wednesday, February 16th, 2011
by: Yolanda Shoshana
It is continually shown that there is power in the human touch. Adding a massage to your foreplay can be quite transformational to your sex life. As you explore your lover’s body with touch, you will find new and exciting ways to please them. Use a sensual massage oil to assist you in your journey of pleasure.
There are some wonderful massage oil candles for you to select that will satisfy you and your lover. Candles are always a great choice to add a touch of romance, but with it melting into massage oil, steps up your sex game.
Here are some sensual suggestions for massage candles that bring on the heat:
Shunga Massage Candle- After this baby burns for about twenty minutes it leaves an aphrodisiac waft in the air. Smelling aphrodisiacs are known to get anyone turned on and ready to go. After it burns and melts, you pour into your hands and work your magic.
Don’t Stop Massage Candle- This candle is from the fabulous Booty Parlor crew, the beauty parlor for your love life. Made with a good combination of ingredients for your skin from shea butter, jojoba, and coconut oil to name a few, your lover will be begging for more. The spout makes it easy to pour in all the right places and it burns for 46 love making hours.
Sensations- The sexy folks from the French company Bijoux Indiscrets believes in a provocative combo of eroticism and sophistication. They have created a candle inspired by the Kama Sutra which is their signature scent. The aphrodisiac notes of jasmine and ylang-ylang bring an erotic touch to the massage oil.
Jimmyjane Afterglow- Oh this is a limited time edition candle that is a must have. It is available in three luscious scents: Absinthe and Sugar Water, Lychee Lapsang, and Truffle Gardenia. The delicious candle comes gift wrapped in a white box with a pink bow. What is also fabulous about Jimmyjane candles is that they come with a body brush. You can paint the cosmetic grade wax into the skin as if you were an artist working with your muse.
Yolanda Shoshana “Shoshi” is a multi-platform media personality: sex goddess, courtesan coach™, lifestyle guru, love maker, wedding officiant, and new thought speaker. Follow her on Twitter @Shoshi
Tags: booty parlor, jimmyjane, Massage, massage candles, massage oil, sex toys, shunga, yolanda shoshana
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