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Steamy Sex Tape? 3 Ways to Protect Your Privacy

Saturday, January 29th, 2011

By Jennifer Latkiewicz

Not everybody with a sex tape wants to make money or somehow further their career — here’s how to keep your intimate moment from going public.

paris hilton sex tapeWith news of a second sex tape starring former “Girls Next Door star and Playboy model Kendra Wilkinson making headlines this week, we’re reminded yet again of Murphy’s other law: If you’re a celebrity and you have a sex tape, it will come out.

Even if you’re not a celebrity, having a sex tape is still at risk for unwanted exposure. But with the voyeuristic thrill and heightened intimacy between you and your partner, unleashing your inner exhibitionist on film could be worth adding to your sexual bucket list.

Unless you could care less about other people seeing your ‘O’ face, or have plans to secretly leak it yourself, you may want to protect your privacy by taking a few extra precautions, just in case.

Of course, your safest bet is to watch the tape immediately then deleting it, but if you insist on keeping an original, download some free encryption software like TrueCrypt to create a hidden, password-protected folder where the video file can be stored securely on your hard drive — even if your computer is stolen or hijacked.

If you filmed it to a DVD, make sure only one copy exists and keep it under lock and key. For years, I seriously feared that one day, I’d drop dead and my grieving parents would discover the ghastly double-ended dildo I received as a gag gift and kept hidden in my closet. Prevent any potential awkwardness by labeling the video as ‘PRIVATE’ with instructions to destroy it immediately. Sure, it’s slightly ridiculous but at least your private affairs will remain private — even in the afterlife.

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Jennifer Latkiewicz is a Love/Sex blogger for LovingYou.com. Follow her on Twitter at @JenniferLat.

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