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Sunday, August 7th, 2011
by: Yolanda Shoshana
Ever hear of a woman named Xaviera Hollander? If not maybe you have heard the term the Happy Hooker.
I have been spending some quality time researching Hollander since I am writing a one woman show about sex. While most people have heard of Heidi Fleiss, some people have no knowledge about Hollander.
In a short time, Hollander went from being a call girl to becoming one of the most famous madams of New York City when she opened up her brothel, Xaviera’s Happy House. In 1971, she was arrested for prostitution and forced to leave the county. It was then that she wrote the best selling memoir, The Happy Hooker: My Own Story. The book is a delightful read as well as packed with great tips about men. Madams do tend to have great skills in the boudoir.
The book also inspired a movie by the same name starring Lynne Redgrave. Unfortunately, the movie was not filled with a lot of porn scenes it focused more on greed and lust in The Big Apple.
Hollander has given lectures on the “do and don’ts of sex in Canada, Holland, and various cities in Europe. For 35 years she wrote a monthly advice column for Penthouse Magazine called Call Me Madam and she has remained their most popular columnist.
She now operates a unique bed and breakfast in Amsterdam called the Happy House Bed & Breakfast and produces theater in Europe. Rumor has it there is Happy Hooker musical in the works.
Yolanda Shoshana “Shoshi” is a lifestyle provocateur: luscious life guru, lifestyle journalist, courtesan coach™, perfume creatrix, interracial love matchmaker, wedding officiant, and new thought speaker. She has a lifestyle show on Mingle Media TV called, Courtesan Candy. Follow her on Twitter @Shoshi
Tags: happy hooker, heidi fleiss, lynne redgrave, madam, new york, xaviera hollander, yolanda shoshana
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Monday, August 1st, 2011
by: Yolanda Shoshana
Have you ever wondered where the wedding custom: something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue comes from? It is a custom that used is by many women when they are ready to tie the knot. It actually comes from an anonymous poet during the Victorian era.
The original good luck phrase reads as:
Something old, something new
Something borrowed, something blue
And a silver sixpence in her shoe.
Something old shows off the connection with the bride to her family.
Something blue is a symbol for loyalty and faithfulness. It is common for a bride to wear a blue garter.
Something borrowed is to remind the bride that friends and family are there to support her in her transition from being single to married.
The sixpence was used as a good luck charm to wish the bride success with money for her nuptials.
It is a traditional that lives on. Enjoy it and figure out fun ways to celebrate it.
Yolanda Shoshana “Shoshi” is a lifestyle provocateur: luscious life guru, lifestyle journalist, courtesan coach™, perfume creatrix, interracial love matchmaker, wedding officiant, and new thought speaker. She has a lifestyle show on Mingle Media TV called, Courtesan Candy. Follow her on Twitter @Shoshi
Tags: bride, groom, Something Borrowed, tradition, victorian, wedding dress, weddings, yolanda shoshana
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Wednesday, July 20th, 2011
by: Yolanda Shoshana
Did you know that the biggest growing audience for porn is women? Stop acting shocked, you know you have clicked on something scandalous online from time to time.
Women are finally admitting that they are interested in porn and now quite a few of the well known popular porn studios are run by women. While most of those studios are making movies more appealing to women, there is still some work to do.
The great news is there are some feminist porn filmmakers creating sexy movies for women. I get a lot of request for more information on porn/erotic movies for women. This list is a short one that will get your feet wet (among other things) when it comes to porn for women.
Candida Royalle- Royalle appeared in about 25 movies during the golden age of porn after living an alternative lifestyle in San Francisco. There is no argument that Royalle is a pioneer when it comes to adult films for women. She created Femme Productions in 1984 to produce films that spoke to women. Her collection of films is great if you are a newbie to watching porn movies. She also has a line of personal massagers called Natural Contours.
Erika Lust- This award winning writer, producer, and founder of Lust Films of Barcelona makes hip, hot, and entertaining movies. Lust offers free clips of her movies on her site from time to time. She is also the author of two great sexy books, Good Porn: A Woman’s Guide and Erotic Bible to Europe. Lust is all about women and their pleasure.
Joanna Angel- Angel is the creatrix of the ever popular alternative porn site, BurningAngel.com. This petite nice Jewish girl started her website while living in Williamsburg while working at night as a stripper. Her movies tend to have great plots and the sex ain’t bad either. If traditional porn is not your thing, you should check out Angel.
Hot Movies for Her- This site is dedicated to porn for women. They have the largest library and selection around, so you could watch for days. Besides the hot on demand, there is a blog packed with sex information and tips.
Tags: burning angel, candida royalle, Erika Lust, erotica, hot movies for her, joanna angel, modern courtesan, porn, porn stars, yolanda shoshana
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Sunday, July 17th, 2011
by: Yolanda Shoshana
As interracial dating and marriage continues to rise, more high profile people are showing up with a partner of another race. Some people are a surprise, one never knows who likes brown sugar or has yellow fever. Let’s take a look at who is swirlin’ it up.
Diane Farr and Seung Yong Chung- You may know Farr from shows, like Numbers and Rescue Me. Farr has a new book out called “Kissing Outside the Lines” where she talk about being married to Korean American, Seung Yong Chung who an Asian American. A great quote from the book is from Farr’s mother, “We always hoped that Diane would not marry outside of our race.” There is a humorous twist to the comment. It is a juicy read about the joys and oys of interracial love.
Janet Jackson and Wissam Al Mana - Jackson’s man is cute, younger, Qatari, and a billionaire, she says she has never been happier. When Jackson talks about him, she blushes a little. In an interview, he called Janet the woman of his dreams. The two are very close; Al Mana was there for Janet during Michael’s death. Seems like Janet picked herself a keeper, which is a good look on her.
Roger Ebert and Chaz Hammel Smith- This one of my favorite couples, though sickness and tough times, they are still together. Ebert proposed to Chaz at the Grand Prix in Monte Carlo while they were sitting outside eating ice cream. And have been married since 1992. A fun fact is that Ebert went out with Oprah. To think, Ebert could have been in the Stedman position, I guess that did not get a thumbs up.
Michael and Shakira Caine- The Caines have been married since 1973, they have a fun romantic story Michael spotted Shakira on a Maxwell House commercial and was so smitten with her, he became determined to find her because; he thought she was the most beautiful woman he had ever seen. He thought he was going to have to go to Brazil to find her. It turned out she was living in London ( his backyard) and is of Indian descent, not Brazilian.
Peter Norton and Gwen Adams Norton- In case you are wondering who Norton is, think Norton Anti- Virus. Makes us all rethink geeky guys now right? He is married to New York financier, Gwen Adams Norton. They spend a lot of time on Martha’s Vineyard and at cultural events. Also note that Norton’s first wife, Eileen Norton is an African American woman from Watts California with whom he has two children. Norton definitely keeps the swirl going.
Yolanda Shoshana “Shoshi” is a lifestyle provocateur: luscious life guru, lifestyle journalist, courtesan coach™, perfume creatrix, interracial love matchmaker, wedding officiant, and new thought speaker. She has a lifestyle show on Mingle Media TV called, Courtesan Candy. Follow her on Twitter @Shoshi
Tags: diane farr, interracial love, interracial marriage, interracial matchmaker, janet jackson, michael caine, peter norton, roger ebert, shakira caine, yolanda shoshana
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Sunday, July 10th, 2011
by: Yolanda Shoshana
Since I announced that I was opening up my interracial matchmaking services to the masses, I have had people eager to be set up and ready for love. While I would love to match everyone with the love of their life, I have to remind everyone that working with a matchmaker is a process.
Since matchmaking is not about magically producing a hot sexy partner in an instant (if only), there are a few things to keep in mind when working with a matchmaker.
1) Talk to a more than one matchmaker- Do yourself a favor and meet with a few matchmakers so that you know who will be the best one to work with. There are a lot of matchmakers out there so meet with as many as you need to until you feel comfortable. If your friends who have gone to a matchmaker ask them how the experience was, was the matchmaker available, etc.
2) Do not expect to be married in a month- When you sign up with a matchmaker, they may not have the perfect person waiting for you in the wings. Allow them time to conjure up people to set you up with. After all, the reason you are working with a matchmaker is to sort out the wrong people and bring you the right ones. I know I am always out shopping for people for my clients. A good matchmaker matches carefully and selectively. You can’t hurry love so exercise patience.
3) Expect to be interviewed- A matchmaker will interview you to get to know you better and to find out more about the person you are seeking. This is when you will find out how your matchmaker will arrange dates, how to follow up, and other important details that are needed for you to work together.
4) Be Open- Once you have selected your matchmaker and s/he wants to send you out with someone that may not be your normal type, take a chance, and go on the date, because it could be the one. There are plenty of people who end up with someone that they never imagined they would be with. Love has a way of striking when we least expect it.
5) Do Your Own Research- Even though your matchmaker will probably be doing a background check, feel free to do your own research on the people that you are set up. Google them, Bing them, look for them on Facebook, basically now there are a lot of ways to check out someone. Know that they will probably do a little research on you.
Yolanda Shoshana “Shoshi” is a lifestyle provocateur: sex goddess, courtesan coach™, spiritual guru, perfume creatrix, matchmaker, wedding officiant, and new thought speaker. She has a lifestyle show on Mingle Media TV called, Courtesan Candy. Follow her on Twitter @Shoshi
Tags: dating, love, marriage, matchmaker, yenta, yolanda shoshana
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Friday, June 24th, 2011
By: Yolanda Shoshana
Being a modern woman can be hard to think about exercising your sex appeal. Who has the time, anymore? Women are working long hours, doing laundry, taking care of their partner or looking for one. Let’s keep it real, thinking about looking or acting sexy is the last thing on your mind.
You can still get in touch with your sex appeal at any time. Just remember these three little tips and you will bring your sexy back!
1) Have Serious “Me Time”- Whether you schedule in your “me time” during each day or at the end of week, this is all about you. It is the perfect time to get your mani and pedi on or get a firm waxing on those long sexy legs of yours. When you keep yourself looking good, you feel good. Remember this; it is a key ingredient to your luscious life.
2) Change Your Routine Up. Have you been stuck in the same routines? Oh girl, not only are you boring your friends to death with the same ‘ole stories, but you may also be boring your lover to death. Switch things up on your life, do not be so predictable. That goes for the single ladies to. People who keep you guessing are more appealing to everyone around them because of their unique flair. Be sure to mix it up.
3) Stay Open To the Possibilities. When we are busy, we it is easy to stop making eye contact, stop holding the door for the person walking behind your or miss the older person in the train to give your seat to. That is missing the opportunity to connect to people. When you are open, MAGIC happens. Cutting yourself off from people around you is okay sometimes, but staying open adds a tremendous amount to your sex appeal. It is the law of attraction bringing everything to you.
Yolanda Shoshana “Shoshi” is a lifestyle provocateur: sex goddess, courtesan coach™, lifestyle guru, perfume creatrix, matchmaker, wedding officiant, and new thought speaker. She has a lifestyle show on Mingle Media TV called, Courtesan Candy. Follow her on Twitter @Shoshi
Tags: me time, modern woman, possibilites, seduction, sex appeal, sexy, yolanda shoshana
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Monday, June 20th, 2011
by: Yolanda Shoshana
When was the last time you said the three magic words, I love you, to your boo? I do not mean in an email, a text or in passing. When was the last time you said those words with intent and feeling.
Saying those three little words can be magic for your relationship. It is difficult for some people to say I love you due to their perspective of the words or how they grew up. Then there are people who throw the words around very easily to the degree that they “love everyone’. Some people love being in love, we all know someone like that.
If you really want “I love you” to take meaning between you and your partner, remember to say the words with intent and meaning. Look into their eyes when you say it. Pick up the phone and say it verbally instead of putting it in a text. Not only is it thoughtful but it slows you down to physically feel love as you say it. It is a win win situation for the both of you.
Besides saying those lovely words, show it. My mother always taught me that action speaks louder than words. You can also do something that shows love versus saying it if the words are hard for you to say.
Pay attention to your partners desires and give them what they crave. It is how you keep love brewing between the two of you, plus it does wonders for keeping it hot in the boudoir.
Make saying “I love you” have meaning and intent!
Yolanda Shoshana “Shoshi” is a lifestyle provocateur: sex goddess, courtesan coach™, lifestyle guru, perfume creatrix, matchmaker, wedding officiant, and new thought speaker. She has a lifestyle show on Mingle Media TV called Courtesan Candy and a radio show Luscious Life on Women’s Radio. Follow her on Twitter @Shoshi
Tags: i love you, intent, love, relationships, sextexting, three little words, yolanda shoshana
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Wednesday, June 15th, 2011
by: Yolanda Shoshana
When I first heard that Ice-T and Coco were going to get their own reality called “Ice Loves Coco”, I thought, it was a joke. The show came about, because Coco wants to take her career to the next level. It has not been declared what the next level is, but know that is the goal. Let’s just hope it isn’t acting. While I do happen to agree with alot of politic comments from Ice-T, would I want to see him at home, in a Speedo or taking a shower? You know how reality television sometimes shows you too much information.
I did know that I would turn in at least for a few shows. Ice-T and Coco would either be a hot mess to watch or at least mindless entertainment for a few minutes. My other reason I wanted to turn in is due to the fact that I am now matchmaking for interracial couples. I wanted to see if Ice-T and Coco would show off a different side than is normally portrayed on television between interracial couples. Unfortunately, the talk shows, Jerry Springer and Maury, show interracial love as a train wreck while a lot of other shows display stereotypes, so my fingers were crossed that there would be a positive spin on this reality show.
Within minutes of the show coming on, not only did Ice love Coco, but so did I. Actually, I love them both, especially together. Coco is quirky which is what is so awesome about her; even Ice sometimes doesn’t know what to say. He just looks at her, because he knows she is going to do keep on with her idea. As he says “why should he be a wet blanket on what she wants to do?” There was a scene of Coco working out to keep killer curves. Any woman who works out on her heels (and can) is my kinda girl.
They have only spent one night apart, who would have thought? When Coco said she never got to wear a wedding dress for their wedding, the camera caught how Ice-T looked at Coco. It was priceless for at that moment, the audience could see his care and concern for her. By the end of the show, Ice suggested that they renew their vows. Now you know that is going to be fun to watch, who knows what these two will do for a wedding.
Who would have thought that an ex pimp and gangsta rapper would have one of the most loving and positive relationships in the entertainment business? They have total respect and admiration for each other. If you missed the show, check it out. You may think of it as a guilty pleasure, but you will give a whole lot of relationship tips from Ice T and Coco. Now we know how they have been together for ten years strong.
Yolanda Shoshana “Shoshi” is a lifestyle provocateur: sex goddess, courtesan coach™, lifestyle guru, perfume creatrix, matchmaker, wedding officiant, and new thought speaker. She has a lifestyle show on Mingle Media TV called, Courtesan Candy. Follow her on Twitter @Shoshi
Tags: coco, cocos world, gangsta rap, ice-t, interracial couples, interracial love, jungle love, law and order, reality tv, yolanda shoshana
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Saturday, June 11th, 2011
by: Yolanda Shoshana
It seems like men in powerful positions can’t seem to stay out of trouble with the ladies. They have money and power, yet they let sex take them down. What is really going on? Maybe all of these men should meet for a retreat; it would make a fabulous reality television show.
Here are some of the latest culprits; the list grows by the minute.
Arnold Schwarzenegger - This hot mess of a situation shocked some people while others were not so shocked. His wife, Maria Shiver, has stood by Arnold though many alleged affairs, but to have a love child by their own maid was the final straw. Hasta la vista baby!
Anthony Weiner- It is becoming hard to keep up with this story. Women keep coming out of nowhere with their Weiner confessions. It is being said that Weiner’s wife is pregnant; can I get an oy vey? Weiner has been called everything from kinky to a perv. There are many kinky people who don’t cosign with his behavior; the problem here is he got careless. He was thinking with his penis and not using his head (well not the one with the brain).Not a bright move for someone who had so much promise. As for his wife, surely she knew he is a bit perverted, maybe she just didn’t know how much.
Tiger Woods- If ever anyone got taken down from his escapades, it was Tiger. Who knew he had it in him to have an affair with at least 9 women, but who knows how many of them their actually were. His wife Elin Nordegren stayed for about a minute then opted to take the money and run. Tiger hasn’t quite gotten his grove back yet, maybe one day he will be on top again.
Jesse James- The man most people never thought was good enough for Sandra Bullock, showed very little class by declaring 2010 was the best year of his life when he fell in love with Kat Von D. Real nice considering the damage he did to Bullock’s heart and what he did to his kids. He said people turned their back on him, he keeps proving why. He may just want to keep his mouth shut.
Eric Benet- When Benet cheated on Halle Berry it caused a stir, how could anyone cheat on one of the most beautiful women in the world? Benet declared that he was a sex addict. Is he or was that just an excuse to go out and get himself laid.
Bill Clinton- Clinton has always been a man that loves the ladies and he always will. Some people wonder why Hilary has stayed with him. It could be a business arrangement like some say. But then again, a question that can also be asked is, doesn’t she know her husband is a charmer who loves to likes having extra lady friends. There may be more to their story than meets the eye.
John Edwards- Some women who had adored Edwards were crushed when they found out he had cheated on the beloved Elizabeth Edwards when she was sick with cancer. If the rumor is true, Elizabeth left a secret tape that was given to prosecutors that could impact John’s future. A woman scorned can get gangsta, look out.
Yolanda Shoshana “Shoshi” is a lifestyle provocateur: sex goddess, courtesan coach™, lifestyle guru, perfume creatrix, matchmaker, wedding officiant, and new thought speaker. She has a lifestyle show on Mingle Media TV called, Courtesan Candy. Follow her on Twitter @Shoshi
Tags: anthony weiner, arnold schwarzenegger, bill clinton, eric benet, halle berry, jess james, john edwards, maria shriver, Sandra Bullock, yolanda shoshana
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Monday, June 6th, 2011
by: Yolanda Shoshana
Does Jennifer Aniston have a new boo? Inquiring minds want to know if there is a new man that Aniston is knocking boots with. Just who is this guy on the block this time around and how long will it last if they are indeed dating?
The new guy is Justin Theroux, he happens to be an actor and screenwriter. You may or may not recognize his face from movies, but if you recall “Tropic Thunder” and “Iron Man 2″; he was the screenwriter for both movies.
It has been said that Aniston has introduced Theroux to her friends. Some people are surprised since Theroux is edgier than the other men Aniston has dated. Maybe it is about time she dates a man with swagger and edge instead of pretty boys. Theroux could be the man who can actually bring all she needs to the table. The fact that Theroux seems to be friends with Robert Downy Jr. makes me like him already.
Aniston’s camp says one of it is true and denies that she is seeing Theroux. It is interesting, because now the media is calling her fickle. Which is she, sad and lonely or fickle? Only time will tell.
We are rooting for you Jen, either way.
Yolanda Shoshana “Shoshi” is a lifestyle provocateur: lifestyle guru, sex goddess, courtesan coach™, perfume creatrix, love maker, wedding officiant, and new thought speaker. She has a new lifestyle show on Mingle Media TV called, Courtesan Candy. Follow her on Twitter @Shoshi
Tags: jennifer aniston, justin theroux, robert downey jr., yolanda shoshana
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